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NOT GOOD TO BE ALONE
This weekend the gospel passage is from Mark's gospel and concerns divorce. But whether we are married or not, Jesus' teaching is challenging to all of us. Indeed, if we look at Matthew's gospel for the parallel passage to this one in Mark, we notice that it can be found in the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus lays down other difficult teachings about: loving enemies; living the Beatitudes, the ideal of nonviolence; turning the other cheek; giving without expecting return. In the light of these ideals that Jesus places before us we must admit that we all fall short. Perhaps the teaching about marriage and divorce should be treated as we treat his other ideals; we fail in so many ways to live the life that Jesus has described for members of his kingdom and we are always in need of mercy from our compassionate God.
A wise priest has written the following: "Pastors, in their care of the faithful, come across couples who may not be able to receive official church declarations of nullity of previous marriages. These people have decided on remarriage and live good family lives, trusting that God will forgive whatever responsibility they bear for the failure of a previous marriage. They hunger to participate in their parish community and its sacramental life. These people, aware of their situation regarding the laws of the church, have decided, with sincere consciences and even the advice of their pastors, to return to the sacraments. Obviously this is not the official teaching of the Church; but still, it is not an uncommon pastoral practice and has been an opening to a renewed spiritual life for probably many divorced Catholics. Other Christian churches have decided to allow second marriages under similar conditions and the Roman Catholic church accepts some of these practices." Interestingly, Pope Benedict has acknowledged that the Church's teachings and practices regarding divorce and remarriage should be further reconsidered.
Our first reading of scripture in this weekend's liturgy from the book of Genesis presents the first time in the Bible when God declares that something is "not good." This is the reality of a human being living alone and not a violation of one of the commandments. Human beings were not created for isolation and the Church has always taught that we should honor life in community and in a special way, marriage whether it is a church sanctioned union or not. |